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About Scott Kinder

I founded DOL Coaching in a desire to continue my service to others after decades of service in the federal government, military service, and civilian employ. I’m a Special Forces combat veteran (18C MOS), former civil servant and executive with roles across a multitude of industries (from Wall Street to internet startups to consulting). People who know me will tell you I’m passionate about helping those around me grow and prosper.

Your Project Isn’t Failing. Your Decisions Are.

By |2026-07-14T18:01:59-04:00July 14th, 2026|NO BS PM|

Every week, someone tells me the same thing. "Scott, the project is failing." Nope. The project isn't failing. The decisions being made around the project are. That may sound harsh, but it matters because you can't fix a project if you're blaming the wrong thing. Projects don't wake up one morning and decide to go

Humility Will Open More Doors Than Your Resume

By |2026-07-14T17:41:55-04:00July 9th, 2026|Frag Out|

One of the hardest transitions veterans make has nothing to do with finding a job. It has everything to do with learning how to introduce themselves again. For years, your identity was clear. Your uniform told people who you were. Your rank communicates experience. Your badges reflected the schools you completed. Your tabs represented years

Comfort Is the Most Expensive Addiction

By |2026-07-14T17:50:35-04:00July 8th, 2026|Scott's Thoughts|

Nobody wakes up one morning and decides to settle. It happens gradually. One comfortable decision at a time. You hit the snooze button because you stayed up too late. You skip the workout because you’ll “make it up tomorrow.” You avoid the difficult conversation because today isn’t the right day. You keep the job you

The Most Expensive Word in Project Management: “Assume”

By |2026-07-14T18:01:03-04:00July 7th, 2026|NO BS PM|

Every failed project has a story. Sometimes it’s poor planning. Sometimes it’s unrealistic deadlines. Sometimes it’s weak leadership. But if you dig deep enough, you’ll almost always find one common thread. Someone assumed something. “We assumed the requirements were final.”  “We assumed IT was handling that.” “We assumed the customer approved the design.” “We assumed

Meetings Don’t Create Alignment

By |2026-07-14T17:55:50-04:00July 6th, 2026|PMF|

Walk into almost any organization, and you’ll see calendars packed with meetings. Daily standups. Weekly status meetings. Executive reviews. Steering committees. Planning sessions. Risk reviews. Lessons learned. People spend hours every week talking about work. Then they leave the room and execute completely different plans. The problem isn’t the number of meetings. The problem is

You Don’t Have High Standards… You Have Different Standards

By |2026-07-14T17:40:55-04:00July 2nd, 2026|Frag Out|

One of the hardest lessons veterans learn after leaving the military isn't that civilians have lower standards. It's that they have different standards. And if you never understand that distinction, you'll spend years frustrated. I've heard it thousands of times. "Nobody cares." "They don't have any discipline." "They accept mediocrity." "They're lazy." Sometimes that's true.

Scope Creep Usually Is Your Fault

By |2026-07-14T18:00:18-04:00June 30th, 2026|NO BS PM|

I’m going to say something that will probably upset a few project managers. Scope creep is usually your fault. Not always, but far more often than we’d like to admit. For decades, we’ve treated scope creep like it’s some unavoidable monster that sneaks into projects in the middle of the night. We blame customers. We

Stop Measuring Busyness

By |2026-07-14T17:54:40-04:00June 29th, 2026|PMF|

There is a dangerous misconception in project management that refuses to die. That misconception is that the more people appear to be working, the healthier the project must be. It’s total and absolute nonsense. I’ve walked into projects where every calendar was packed, every team member was exhausted, Slack and Teams notifications never stopped, meetings

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