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Social Media, Keyboard Warriors, and Why Your LinkedIn Deserves Better

Social Media, Keyboard Warriors, and Why Your LinkedIn Deserves Better
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Most people treat their social media feeds like a digital junk drawer. Random opinions. Emotional vents. Half-baked takes. A meme here. A complaint there.

And before you know it, you’ve given away your most valuable resource (your time and attention) to people who haven’t earned a second of it.

Believe it or not, your socials should serve a purpose. They’re tools. And tools are only as valuable as the intention behind them.

A hammer drives nails. A wrench tightens bolts. A level keeps your project straight.

But use any of those tools for the wrong job? Congrats, you’re wasting time and probably breaking something.

Social media is no different.

Facebook is for your personal life. LinkedIn is for your professional one.

Most people use Facebook to stay connected with family and friends, and that’s great. That’s the intended mission set. I don’t personally spend time on Facebook, but I get why others do.

LinkedIn, however? LinkedIn is not your personal diary, your emotional support group, or your late-night ranting venue. It is (or should be) a professional battlefield where you sharpen your skills, strengthen your network, and support others doing the same.

We all mock LinkedIn as “business Facebook,” but if you zoom out and look deeper, it’s one of the most powerful tools a professional has today.

You get direct access to leaders you’d never meet otherwise. Access and involvement in communities built around growth, not gossip. Opportunities you don’t have to chase, as they can chase you, and a platform to showcase competence instead of complaints.

But that power evaporates when your feed turns into a circus.

Here’s the truth nobody wants to say out loud: most people don’t know how to use LinkedIn. They scroll. They lurk. They drop contrarian comments disguised as “thought leadership.” They try to stir the pot because engagement feels like relevance.

But nonsense is nonsense, even when dressed up as a “hot take.”

These are the keyboard warriors: the people who comment to hear themselves talk. The ones who attack others under the banner of “being honest.” The ones who add zero value but expect maximum attention. The ones who treat a professional network like their personal therapy session.

And you know what? You’re not required to let them camp out in your feed.

“But Scott… isn’t removing connections harsh?” No. What’s harsh is letting people you don’t respect steal your time, hijack your attention, and clog your mental space with noise. What’s harsh is pretending your network doesn’t shape your opportunities. What’s harsh is lying to yourself about the cost of distraction.

Let me put it plainly: You wouldn’t use a hammer to pull out a screw. So why on earth would you let the wrong people use your professional network incorrectly?

LinkedIn is a tool. Your network is a force multiplier. Your time is a scarce asset.

Anyone who brings nonsense, negativity, or noise into that environment deserves a fast, clean, and unapologetic removal.

“But what if they get offended?” Then they just proved you made the right decision.

A professional who understands LinkedIn’s purpose will never be offended that you curate your connections. A keyboard warrior, on the other hand, relies on access to others because they don’t produce anything worth connecting with.

If someone gets upset that you unfollowed or disconnected? They’ve already told you everything you need to know about their maturity, their professionalism, and their value to your network.

Here’s my take: Your LinkedIn feed should make you better.

Every post you see should: Teach you something or update you on progress others are making. Challenge how you think and give access to opportunities. Inspire improved performance. Connect you to someone worth knowing. Add momentum to your career or business.

If it doesn’t do that, it doesn’t belong. That’s not being rude. That’s being intentional.

It’s not personal. It’s professional. You’re responsible for the environment you allow yourself to operate in (both online and offline).

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: Most people aren’t willing to curate their connections because they’re addicted to being “nice.”

Nice doesn’t pay the bills. Nice doesn’t build careers. Nice doesn’t protect your time.

Clarity does. Intentionality does. Boundaries do.

Your LinkedIn is not an all-you-can-eat buffet where everyone gets a plate. It’s a curated guest list. And you get to decide who enters the room.

LinkedIn is not the problem. The way people use it is.

When used correctly: It amplifies your voice. It accelerates your career. It connects you with the right people at the right time. It opens doors that used to require years of networking. It builds real, tangible opportunities.

But only if you protect it.

Every day, you’re either being sharpened or being dulled by what you consume.

Keyboard warriors dull you. Low-value content dulls you. Unfocused noise dulls you.

A strong, curated network makes you better. So clean your feed. Remove the nonsense. Disconnect from people who treat LinkedIn like their personal drama playground.

And for the love of all things professional, use the tool for its intended purpose.

Your time is limited. Your attention is limited. Your network is a force multiplier (as long as you protect it).

Be ruthless with your connections so you can be generous with your value.

DOL.

By Scott Kinder|2025-12-12T14:20:43-05:00December 5th, 2025|Scott's Thoughts|

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About the Author: Scott Kinder

I founded DOL Coaching in a desire to continue my service to others after decades of service in the federal government, military service, and civilian employ. I’m a Special Forces combat veteran (18C MOS), former civil servant and executive with roles across a multitude of industries (from Wall Street to internet startups to consulting). People who know me will tell you I’m passionate about helping those around me grow and prosper.

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